Saturday, October 31, 2009

This is it


This is it
The new pathway I am heading to
The new destination I am flying to
The new enviroment I am looking forward


This is it
A starting point of new career
A heading point of new future
A beginning point of new challenge


This is it
Be it bad or good
I wish for courage to sail through it
I wish for determination to live it to the fullest

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

启发

上周末忙碌的日子已过,我仿佛又回到了“宅女”的生活。前阵子的空虚感又再次悄悄地在我心底作祟,没用的自卑感又再次重重地打击我的信心,头脑装满的都是负面的思想,“没用的我怎么到现在还没找到工,没用的我什么时候才能重新大展拳脚,没用的我怎么那么不争气啊!”

即使家人朋友给了我很多鼓励及支持,我深深明白我有时候还是输给了自己,输的是没勇气接受现况的我,输的是怕被别人瞧不起的我。我需要的是自己能帮自己开窍的方法。最终我选择阅读。

近来读了一些心理学的书,大多数是游乾桂的著作。其中一本叫做“别和自己过不去”。里头有好几则短文我还蛮喜欢的,不但很有启发性,而且还渐渐地把我从负面思想拉出来,在此想和大家分享:

活着就好
我有一个梦,一个非常简单的梦,它叫--活着就好。当你年薪超过两百万,身体只值一块钱时,你会陷入这样的迷思之中--要命还是要钱。赚得全世界,赔上一条命,这样的生意划不划得来,你比我清楚。于是,活着就好,起码代表钱是有用的;死了,什么都别说。(还好,我还活着,虽然我没钱!

以童为师
心理学家研究发现,孩子生气只有三秒钟,大人生气长达一个月,甚至更长,一辈子死对头的大人大有人在。因为孩子的心理是简单的。大人的心灵很复杂。孩子说一是一,大人说一是十;孩子举一反三,大人举一反零;小孩不计前嫌,大人斤斤计较;小孩烦恼走了,大人痛苦仍在;小孩找不着仇人,大人仇人满街;你是孩子的父母,孩子却是你的心理医生。(感恩我家哥哥的小孩,他们确实是我的快乐泉源!

生命形式
每种生命都有它不凡的价值。生下来一无所有的人,正代表人有无限可能。生命不能不获得某种形式,却又难以避免的陷入它的形式里。比如,作家,它是一种身份,一种职业,也是一种限制,[无]在那一刻成了[有],无限也就变成了有限。生命的固定化形同[作繭自缚]。我的生命[虚无],但却[实有]。无气,有乐。无怨,有悦。无钱,有闲。(我就是那个无钱,有闲的人啦!

坚持自我
什么最难?坚持自我最难。什么最简单?坚持自我最简单。美国思想家爱默生也这样说过,顺着世俗的方式生活,很容易,依照自己的想法过生活,也很容易;最难的是,在世俗的环境里,过自己的生活。坚持,往往需要一点点[勇气]。(是的,我很需要这份勇气!

短文摘自于游乾桂的《别和自己过不去》

Monday, October 19, 2009

Reunion


I felt good meeting old friends again at hometown. Without them, I wouldn't get free accomodation. Without them, I wouldn't easily get moved around the city. Without them, I wouldn't be able to secure a ticket back to Singapore. Thanks a lot, buddies!

I am always proud as a Malaccan. A recognised world heritage and historical state. A place where I grew up. A place where I had lots of sweet memories with family and friends. A place where I can eat all I can!

Nyonya laksa, one of my die-die must eat food when I am back. A year ago, I still managed to get a table inside the restaurant. After a year, I saw a very long Q till the road outside. I saw traffic jam around Jonker Street. You can imagine how fast the tourist industry has boomed in Malacca.

Satay celup! I love it so much! Counting properly, I have not had it for ages! Somebody reminded me that it is actually not hygienic with the gravy used repeatedly. Well, who cares?! The one I went was located at Ong Kim Wee road. There are 3-4 shops and all were full house! See, tasty food is always irresistible!


One trip home reunites and rekindles our friendship. One trip home brings us back to old days. One trip home brings us laughters and happiness!
















Sunday, October 18, 2009

Happy Birthday, Ah Ko!

Every day is a new beginning....
But today, is special.....
It is my dearest elder brother's birthday!
Happy Birthday, Ah Ko!
Wishing you a day busting with happiness and sparkling with joys!


We had one-week-in-advanced birthday celebration for him in Penang. Instead of buying a big creamy fancy birthday cake, we bought six different flavour of doughnuts with our own creative decorations on top for him.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Is he still alived?


Is he still alived? Look properly. Yes, this is fat version of Michael Jackson! A tribute for MJ at Changi airport. I paid more attention to his two dancer instead. I couldn't stop laughing looking at them. The way they danced and their expressions were very amusing.




Sunday, October 11, 2009

Coffee or tea

I am not a coffee or tea person. I like coffee but I can't take it. Firstly, I have gastritis. Secondly, my heart beats very fast and my stomach starts to bloat after drinking coffee. Still, sometimes I can't resist its fragrance. I used to have biscuit (especially the old brand, 888 biscuit) dipping with Kopi-C when I was young. I loved it so much! I don't drink tea as well until recently, I start loving it especially my aunt's or my sis's home made Teh-C.

Last week, I had afternoon tea time with my sister and elder brother at a newly-opened cafe. "You will hardly find in other place for this kind of coffee!" the first thing my brother strongly recommended when we arrived in Penang. Sister and I wondered how fantastic could it be until we tried the coffee...wow...lovely! Ok well, frankly, I don't really know how to drink coffee. For me, most coffee taste the same. However, I still could taste it much bitter and smell stronger than other coffee.


It is kind of modified coffee maker to boil coffee. The process was similar to boiling the water in beaker on the Bunsen burner in the lab. The owner of the cafe showed us how to correctly make a nice coffee. For me, it is quite a tedious job. No wonder, slow work yields fine products.


Our intention was to try the coffee called Kopi Luwak. It was said that this coffee made from coffee berries which have been eaten by and passed through the digestive tract of the Asian Palm Civet (Paradoxurus hermaphroditus) and other related civets. The civets eat the berries, but the beans inside pass through their system undigested. This process takes place on the islands of Sumatra, Java, Bali and Sulawesi in the Indonesia Archipelago, in the Philipines (where the product is called Motit Coffee in the Cordillera, or Kape Alamid in Tagalogs areas) and in East Timor (locally called kafé-laku). It is sold around RM20. Can you imagine? We were drinking coffee that come from animal's faeces yet it was so expensive! However, we had no luck to try this coffee. Instead, we had Kalosi Jantan coffee which was very nice too.
We tried the nasi lemak and santan dessert in that coffee shop too. One word, GOOD! You should try the coffee and food there if you happen to go Penang: Coffee Lane, 10-B King Street Georgetown 10200 Penang.

Well, after coffee, sister and I had late afternoon tea break again after shopping at a nice tea house called Winter Warmer at Gurney Plaza. I like their English-style decoration and it was very cozy and soothing sitting inside, sipping a cup of tea. What a relaxed and wonderful "tai tai" life....haha!



Tuesday, October 6, 2009

接受


我在学习接受,接受近来的不如意,接受难熬的等待,接受事实。人家说成功不会从天上掉下来,逆境常在左右,这就是生活考验。我要学习逆风飞舞,但愿越飞越顺风!

跌倒了,爬起来!

失败了,不灰心,再来一次!

失恋, 有什么大不了!

失业,有什么可怕!

逆境,不怕不怕!我一定会过关!