Saturday, January 23, 2010

Farewell

Time flies in a twinkling of an eye. Sounding like my nephew (he likes counting days everynight, with cute and kiddie rhythm, "MON-da-y, TUEs-da-y, WEDnes-da-y....etc", I am counting down the days towards the departure to a new start and new challenge. OMG, three days left to bid farewell to my dearest family and friends. Excited? Hmmm.....quite! Sad? Definitely. Nervous? Oh yeah, a bit!

Besides busy with pre-departure preparations, farewell luncheons or dinners or meet-ups with friends occupied my calendar these 2 weeks. It was really sweet and touching moments with a few groups of friends organising heartwarming farewells for me. Hugsssss, buddies!

First group, my old secondary school buddies; steamboat at sis Fang's house, Malacca. This was an early farewell cum hard-to-come-by-after-a-decade gathering, organised in December while Fang was back from Brunei. We started as a gang since Form 5 when we were gathered as a team in an environmental project. Since then, we joined many other competitions in a group that slowly strenghtened and built up our friendship. In retrospect, we couldn't stop laughing and making fun of each other on our funny, crazy and embarassed moments we had during school days. I wish we will have this kind of gathering till we're old. We cheered for friendship forever!

Second group, Doreen and her church friends; at MOF Japanese Dessert, Marina Square. A group of friends whom I enjoyed outdoor activities with. They are friendly, nice, sunny and energetic! Hey buddies, thanks for the fun moments at picnic, beach game, ?hiking (though eating out sounds to be more accurate in the end), and kayaking!


Third group, Zu family (as introduced by Susana); Thai food at Nakhon Restaurant, Kovan; Dessert at Starbuck, City Square. Why Zu? Because they're nicknamed with the Zu/猪 in front or behind, eg, Pei-zu, zu-Yen, Ah Har (Oppss....this one is a bit different, probably originated from marine family? LOL =D), ?zu-Yan (Yee Yan). There're 7-8 of them in Zu family. The rest of the members who are not in the picture includes zu-Na, zu-Li etc (these are whom I knew so far). Interesting? Yeah, a funny, crazy, happy-go-lucky and cheerful family graduated from UTM. Btw, is it free to be a member???? *wink*

It was very sweet of Pei Shi to make us a brownie cheese cake as dessert after lunch. Yum yumm....we love it so much! We suggested her to, perhaps, start up a bakery career in future via online ordering system, with a fascia called "LimMak". Yee Yan volunteered to assist her in marketing and publicity; Ah Har initially said, "Don't worry, just in case your businessis is not good, I'll help you eating up all your cakes!" but trying not to be the only devil, she reclaimed,"Of course not, I will help you in delivery!"; and me, assist her in writing blogs all about her yummy cakes! Good idea huh? Think about it, Pei Shi!

How can I not fall in love with Pei Shi? She is just so sweet and thoughtful, isn't she? She bought me a moisturiser from The Body Shop which I long to have. Thank you so much, sweetie~



Forth group, my lovely pretty cousin and handsome cousin-in-law; at Mellben Seafood Restaurant, AngMoKio. When people say cousin and I are quite look-alike, I would smile smugly to show a kind of satisfaction that I am pretty too ^-^ However, I also feel kind of inferior at times that I would always be the not-so-attractive one beside her as all the glories would unwittingly be concentrated on her. No matter what it is, we are close as sisters. There were many happy childhood moments we spent together at each other's house during school holidays, eg, collecting chicken eggs at her mother's small farm, playing "masak", tying up my hair, swinging on the swing and chit-chatting etc. Talking about her husband, I would say he is quite a perfectionist at times but he is a nice guy whom you will never get bored with as he always has lots of topics to talk. Thanks to both of them for shouting me such a luxurious dinner!

Lastly, I am looking forward to my farewell cum early reunion dinner with family! Though as traditional asian, we don't express love utterly to family, I can feel very much with love from my family that they are pillar of strength to me in life. Though I will be far away from them again, my heart will never be far apart with them. I love you, my dearest family!







Monday, January 18, 2010

A nerd

Since yesterday, I hate to look into mirror. I got frustrated when I saw the person inside. Where is my long, permed and stylish hairstyle???? I miss it so much!

In order to save money and for easy maintenance in future (where I will be in oversea which I heard the hairdo is expensive), I straighten and cut my hair short. But I am not satisfied with it. With my thick, black framed spec plus the student-like hairstyle, I totally look like a nerd! I hate it!

Because of it, I had a bad dream last night where everyone in it was laughing at my hairstyle. Arrrghhh....how can I make it look more modern instead of a nerd??? Please help me....*crying in pain*

Thursday, January 14, 2010

宝贝



突然很不舍,不舍得离开我家的两个可爱宝贝。这半年来习惯有他们的陪伴,习惯有他们的笑声哭声,习惯每天早晨醒来,亲亲她的小脚,逗着她笑,习惯吻吻他的额头说早安,背着他的书包,送他上学,接他回家。这么一走,我得等到一年半才能见到他们,呜呼。。。。我不要走 =(

Monday, January 11, 2010

有这么严重吗?

最近看了何权峰的《有这么严重吗》。里头有很多有趣即有意义的笑话,看了嘴角会不禁翘了起来,感觉很好。希望这小小的分享也能带给你快乐,轻松一下=)

有个年轻人为了脱发的问题感到非常的苦恼,后来听说有家诊所是专治脱发的,便迫不及待地跑去看。医生给了他一瓶药水,说:[用了一个星期以后,保证头发不会再脱落。] 年轻人很兴奋。哪知道,用了这种药以后,头发竟全掉光了。他气愤地找医生理论。医生说:[我这种药,就是让头发快速掉光,所以你现在也就没有头发可脱落了。] 没有了头发,也就没有[掉头发]的烦恼,不是吗?

当你失去某些东西,就会得到另一些东西;当你想要得到某种东西时,你也会失去另一种东西。
有一对经常吵架的夫妻,有天一起出游,经过一个小湖。太太看到湖上两只鹅恩爱地相依偎着,就感慨地说:[你看,它们多恩爱呀!] 丈夫听了,默不作声。到了下午,这对夫妻返家时,又经过那小湖,依然看见公鹅母鹅在湖面上卿卿我我,真是令人羡慕!此时,妻子又开口了:[你要是能像那只公鹅一样体贴温柔,那就好了。][是啊!我也希望如此啊!]先生指着湖面上的那一只鹅说;[不过,你有没有看清楚,现在那只母鹅,并不是早上那一只哦!]
所谓:[有一好,就没两好。]蜡烛不可能两头烧,甘蔗不可能两头甜;当你找了一个精明能干的人,他[对你]也可能精打细算,想找一个懂得浪漫情趣的人,他可能[对别人]浪漫体贴。

许多人都不愿正视过错,因为一旦承认自己过错,就必须面对自己的问题和罪恶,为了维护颜面,就算明知错了,也要兜个大圈子说:[是谁说的?凭什么证明是我的错?]
法官:[有两个证人看到你行窃,你怎么还说自己是无辜的?]
窃贼:[法官大人,我可以找到一百个没有看到我犯案的人啊!]

房客拼命敲房东的门:[我是来告诉你,我的房间里有老鼠。]
房东:[我不是更你说过不许养宠物吗?]

我们经常掉进一个陷阱,就是[争论必有输赢]。不管自己有理无理,都要[争赢],结果常闹到不可收拾的地步。那该怎么办,难道要叫我[逆来顺受]?不,正好相反,我们得学学[先圣先贤]是如何[应对进退],如何骂人骂得很有气质,修理人修理得很有格调;如何[借力使力],用简单的一句话,就把整个情势逆转过来。
甲说:[我原本留着跟你一样的胡子,后来觉得很难看,便把它剔了。]
丙说:[我原本的脸长得跟你一样,后来觉得很难看,便留了胡子。]


另有一个长得非常瘦的男子,在街上碰到了胖子朋友。
胖子说:[看到你,就知道世界正在闹饥荒。]
瘦子说:[看到你,就知道世界为什么会闹饥荒。]
这就叫以其矛攻其之盾,以其人之道还治其人之身。

悲观者就是,当机会来敲门也会以为是有人在扔石头;而看到花圈就会想到葬礼的人。
有位太太一直都怀疑她的先生可能有外遇。最近,她觉得先生的举止有些奇怪,为此她决定开始搜查先生的全部物品,看看有没有其它女人留下的[蛛丝马迹]。第一天,找到一根乌黑柔细的头发,她生气地对先生说:[我就知道你外面有女人,看这根头发你要怎么解释。] [没有的事,你不要太多心了。]丈夫连忙澄清。第二天,发现一根白发,她更加激动地对丈夫说:[连一个老女人你也要,真是气死我了。] [别再胡闹了!]丈夫无奈的说。第三天,她气得要离婚,丈夫不解的问:[今天你没有找到任何一根头发,却为何生更大的气呢?] 太太回答:[我实在不敢相信,居然连一个秃头的女人你都不放过。]

看吧,是不是很可笑?

摘自于何权峰的《有这么严重吗?》

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Lazy worm

I have been at home for half a year and yet I realised nothing meaningful do I learn or achieve by just letting every minute ticked away so easily. What a shame! I am such a lazy bum and getting-fatter worm.

I felt ashamed when people asking me,"So what do you do at home?" I became more and more inferior when people saying the same thing repeatedly, "Don't you feel bored being at home?" I felt speechless when people showing their jeaslousness towards me,"Oh you're so lucky! How I wish I could have such a long holidays like you!" @_@

Indeed, it is the longest holidays I have ever had. However, frankly, even though I feel sluggish at home the whole day, time past like rocket. It seems like a routine formula to describe my day. Breakfast + newspaper = Morning. Lunch + internet/book = Afternoon. Dinner + TV = Night.

I remember once a tour guide told me he used to spend 3 hours reading newspaper in the morning, 2 hours in gardening, 3-4 hours reading and 3 hours for dinner in a day when I travelled to New Zealand with my family. Clandestinely, I laughed and mocked him for wasting life. Now, such things happen real on me! Nevertheless, I realised how many people can have such priviledge for enjoying plenty of time reading news while sipping a cuppa in the morning.

Rushing of time has no longer be my part of life. Things are done in slow motion and sluggish pace. Whenever I don't feel like doing one thing, I can leave it till tomorrow. Whenever I feel like shopping or watching a movie, I just grab my bag and go without hesitating much at the calendar. Whenever a friend is asking me out, I just say YES! according to their availability. Whenever I feel tired, I just sleep! No wonder people are envious of me!

Three more weeks to go and I am flying off soon. Yet, I can't feel the beat to get ready for the departure. Perhaps I am greedy for more holidays and I am not mentally prepared to leave. I enjoy much spending time with family and friends. I enjoy having a maid at home cooking and doing housechores for me ^-^ Going oversea would mean I have to wash clothes, cook and do housechores on my own =( Yeah, now you know I am such a lazy worm.....